Meaning & use
friend or foe
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Meanings
phrasefixed phrase
Someone who might be an ally or an enemy, used when it is not yet clear which side a person or thing is on.
Grammar: Used as a fixed pair; it often follows 'whether' or 'be it': whether friend or foe.
Patterns
- be friend or foe
- treat someone as friend or foe
The guards could not tell whether the stranger was friend or foe.
Is the new manager friend or foe?
A good soldier must tell friend from foe quickly.
phrasefixed phrase
Used to mean everyone, whether they are allies or enemies, to show that something applies to all people alike.
Grammar: Often used after a verb like treat or welcome: she welcomed friend and foe alike, or friend or foe.
Patterns
- friend or foe alike
The old chef fed anyone who knocked, friend or foe.
The storm hit friend or foe alike.
She greets all visitors politely, friend or foe.
Word forms
| plural | friends or foes |
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Common combinations
- identify friend or foe
- The radar system helps identify friend or foe.
- treat as friend or foe
- Voters treat each candidate as friend or foe.
- whether friend or foe
- Whether friend or foe, she gave everyone the same respect.
- friend or foe alike
- The famous host welcomed friend or foe alike.
- tell friend from foe
- In a crowd, it was hard to tell friend from foe.
Synonyms and how they differ
- ally or enemy
- Ally or enemy is plainer and more literal, while friend or foe has a slightly dramatic, storytelling tone.
- for or against
- For or against is about taking a side in a debate or vote, not about personal loyalty.
- on our side or not
- This is spoken and casual, and does not have the fixed, literary ring of friend or foe.
Opposites
Word family
Commonly confused: friend or foe or fraud?
friend or foe vs fraud
Fraud is a crime of cheating people, not a word for an enemy.
Practice
The sentry shouted, 'Halt! Are you ______?'
Choose one answer.
Friend or foe is the fixed phrase a guard uses to ask whose side someone is on. The other pairs do not ask about loyalty.
Make it your own
Write a sentence using “friend or foe”, then check it and compare it with the examples above.