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friend or foe

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UK/frend ɔː fəʊ/
US/frend ɔːr foʊ/

Meanings

  1. phrasefixed phrase

    Someone who might be an ally or an enemy, used when it is not yet clear which side a person or thing is on.

    Grammar: Used as a fixed pair; it often follows 'whether' or 'be it': whether friend or foe.

    Patterns

    • be friend or foe
    • treat someone as friend or foe

    The guards could not tell whether the stranger was friend or foe.

    Is the new manager friend or foe?

    A good soldier must tell friend from foe quickly.

  2. phrasefixed phrase

    Used to mean everyone, whether they are allies or enemies, to show that something applies to all people alike.

    Grammar: Often used after a verb like treat or welcome: she welcomed friend and foe alike, or friend or foe.

    Patterns

    • friend or foe alike

    The old chef fed anyone who knocked, friend or foe.

    The storm hit friend or foe alike.

    She greets all visitors politely, friend or foe.

Word forms

pluralfriends or foes

Common combinations

identify friend or foe
The radar system helps identify friend or foe.
treat as friend or foe
Voters treat each candidate as friend or foe.
whether friend or foe
Whether friend or foe, she gave everyone the same respect.
friend or foe alike
The famous host welcomed friend or foe alike.
tell friend from foe
In a crowd, it was hard to tell friend from foe.

Synonyms and how they differ

ally or enemy
Ally or enemy is plainer and more literal, while friend or foe has a slightly dramatic, storytelling tone.
for or against
For or against is about taking a side in a debate or vote, not about personal loyalty.
on our side or not
This is spoken and casual, and does not have the fixed, literary ring of friend or foe.

Opposites

Word family

friend noun
a person you like and trust
friendly adjective
kind and pleasant toward others
foe noun
an enemy or opponent, mostly literary
befriend verb
to become a friend of someone

Commonly confused: friend or foe or fraud?

friend or foe vs fraud

Fraud is a crime of cheating people, not a word for an enemy.

Practice

The sentry shouted, 'Halt! Are you ______?'

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