Meaning & use
get by
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Meanings
verbintransitive
To have just enough money, food, or other things to live, without any extra.
Grammar: No object; it usually comes after the subject and can be followed by 'on' plus the thing that is just enough: get by on very little.
Patterns
- get by on something
- get by with something
- get by somehow
After he lost his job, the family got by on one small salary.
We don't have much, but we get by.
She gets by on about twenty dollars a week for food.
verbintransitive
To manage to do something or deal with a situation, even though it is difficult.
Grammar: No object; often used with 'with' before the thing that helps you manage: get by with a little help.
Patterns
- get by with something
- get by without something
- get by on something
My French isn't great, but I get by when I travel.
The team got by without their best player.
I can get by with a dictionary and a lot of pointing.
verbintransitive
To be accepted or noticed without causing trouble, especially when you should not be.
Grammar: No object; often used about mistakes, bad behavior, or things that are not checked carefully.
Patterns
- get by someone
- get by unnoticed
The mistake got by the editor and appeared in the final book.
That kind of behavior won't get by in this school.
A few errors got by, but most were caught.
Word forms
| third person singular | gets by |
|---|---|
| past tense | got by |
| past participle | gotten by |
| -ing form | getting by |
Common combinations
- get by on a small income
- They get by on a small income and never complain.
- get by with a little help
- He got by with a little help from his friends.
- get by without a car
- In the city, you can get by without a car.
- barely get by
- After the rent went up, they could barely get by.
- get by in a language
- I can get by in Spanish for simple conversations.
Synonyms and how they differ
- survive
- Stronger and more serious; it suggests real danger or hardship, while get by is about ordinary daily managing.
- manage
- More general and can be transitive ('manage a team'), but for money or daily life it is close to get by.
- cope
- Focuses on handling a difficult feeling or situation, not on having enough money or resources.
- scrape by
- Very similar but more informal and suggests even less money or comfort than get by.
Opposites
Word family
Commonly confused: get by or get on? get by or get through?
get by vs get on
British English 'get on' can mean to have a good relationship or to make progress; it does not mean to have just enough to live.
get by vs get through
'Get through' means to finish something or to reach someone by phone, not to manage with limited resources.
Practice
Choose the best sentence:
Choose one answer.
We use 'get by on' before money or resources: get by on a small salary. 'Get by with' is possible but usually refers to help or tools, not money, and 'get by' cannot take a direct object without a preposition.
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