Meaning & use

obey

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UK/əˈbeɪ/
US/əˈbeɪ/

Meanings

  1. verbtransitive or intransitive

    To do what a person in authority tells you to do.

    Grammar: Takes a direct object: obey the teacher, not obey to the teacher. Can also be used without an object: the dog obeyed.

    Patterns

    • obey someone
    • obey an order

    The soldiers obeyed the general without question.

    The puppy finally learned to obey when called.

    Children should obey their parents when crossing the road.

  2. verbtransitive

    To follow a rule, law or instruction as required.

    Grammar: Takes an object such as a law or rule: obey the speed limit.

    Patterns

    • obey a rule
    • obey the law

    Drivers must obey the speed limit.

    Citizens are expected to obey the law.

    Players who do not obey the rules are sent off.

  3. verbtransitivetechnical

    To act according to a natural law or physical principle, as scientific things do.

    Grammar: Used in science: objects obey gravity.

    Patterns

    • obey a law of physics

    Every falling object obeys gravity.

    Gases obey simple laws when temperature stays constant.

    The planets obey the laws of motion.

Word forms

third person singularobeys
past tenseobeyed
past participleobeyed
-ing formobeying

Common combinations

obey orders
Soldiers must obey orders.
obey the law
Most people obey the law out of habit.
blindly obey
He blindly obeyed the rules even when they made no sense.
obey a command
The dog obeyed the command to sit.
refuse to obey
She refused to obey the unfair order.
obey the rules
Everyone must obey the rules of the pool.

Synonyms and how they differ

comply
Comply is more formal and often used for regulations, while obey works with people and rules alike.
follow
Follow is milder and need not involve authority, while obey suggests being told what to do.
heed
Heed means to pay attention to advice or a warning, which is gentler than obey.
submit
Submit stresses giving in to a stronger power, while obey simply means doing as told.

Opposites

Word family

obedient adjective
willing to do as told
obedience noun
the act of doing what you are told
obediently adverb
in a manner that follows orders
disobey verb
to fail to do as told
disobedient adjective
refusing to follow rules

Commonly confused: obey or abide? obey or obey vs. obeisance?

obey vs abide

You abide by rules (with by), while you obey rules directly.

obey vs obey vs. obeisance

Obeisance is a formal gesture of respect, such as a bow, not just following orders.

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