Meaning & use

selfishness

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UK/ˈselfɪʃnəs/
US/ˈselfɪʃnəs/

Meanings

  1. noununcountable

    The quality of caring mainly about your own needs or wishes and not about other people.

    Grammar: Uncountable; used with singular verbs and no article when speaking generally.

    Patterns

    • selfishness in someone
    • an act of selfishness
    • out of selfishness

    His selfishness hurt the whole team.

    She was shocked by the selfishness of the decision.

    It was an act of pure selfishness.

  2. noununcountable

    Behavior that puts your own interests before the needs of others.

    Grammar: Can be used with 'the' when referring to a specific instance.

    Patterns

    • the selfishness of someone
    • accuse someone of selfishness

    The selfishness of the rich was criticized in the article.

    They accused him of selfishness.

Common combinations

pure selfishness
Leaving without helping was pure selfishness.
act of selfishness
Taking the last seat was an act of selfishness.
accuse someone of selfishness
She accused her brother of selfishness.
out of selfishness
He refused to share out of selfishness.

Synonyms and how they differ

egotism
More formal; focuses on thinking too highly of yourself, not just on wanting your own way.
greed
Specifically about wanting more money or things than you need.
self-centeredness
Similar, but stresses being focused on yourself rather than actively harming others.

Opposites

Word family

selfish adjective
Caring mainly about yourself.
selfishly adverb
In a selfish way.
unselfish adjective
Caring about others; not selfish.

Commonly confused: selfishness or self-care?

selfishness vs self-care

Self-care means looking after your own health and well-being, which is positive and does not necessarily harm others; selfishness ignores others' needs.

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