Meaning & use

socially tone-deaf

adjective·Advanceddisapproving

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UK/ˌsəʊʃəli ˌtəʊn ˈdef/
US/ˌsoʊʃəli ˌtoʊn ˈdef/
Usage warning: this word is disapproving. It shows a negative opinion, so take care with who and what you use it about.

Meaning

  1. adjectivenot comparabledisapproving

    Not understanding what is appropriate or sensitive to say in social situations, often causing offense.

    Grammar: Used after linking verbs like be, seem, or sound; it is not usually used before a noun.

    Patterns

    • be socially tone-deaf
    • seem socially tone-deaf
    • a socially tone-deaf comment

    His joke about the accident was completely socially tone-deaf.

    The company's response seemed socially tone-deaf and made customers angrier.

    She is not mean, but she can be socially tone-deaf at times.

Common combinations

a socially tone-deaf comment
The politician made a socially tone-deaf comment about poverty.
seem socially tone-deaf
The ad seemed socially tone-deaf to many viewers.
socially tone-deaf response
Their socially tone-deaf response to the crisis was widely criticized.
come across as socially tone-deaf
He came across as socially tone-deaf during the interview.

Synonyms and how they differ

insensitive
This is broader and can refer to feelings in general; socially tone-deaf focuses on not reading social situations.
tactless
This means saying things that upset people; it is close, but socially tone-deaf suggests a lack of awareness rather than just bad manners.

Opposites

socially awaresensitive

Word family

tone-deaf adjective
Literally unable to hear differences in musical notes; also used figuratively for not understanding a mood or message.

Commonly confused: socially tone-deaf or tone-deaf?

socially tone-deaf vs tone-deaf

Tone-deaf alone can mean unable to hear music; socially tone-deaf is only about social behavior.

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