Meaning & use
stay sober
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Meanings
phrasefixed phrase
To avoid drinking alcohol, or to keep from becoming drunk, during a certain time.
Grammar: Verb stay changes form (stays, stayed) while sober stays the same: she stayed sober all night.
Patterns
- stay sober for something
- stay sober at something
I'm driving tonight, so I'll stay sober.
He promised to stay sober at his sister's wedding.
It is hard to stay sober when everyone around you is celebrating.
phrasefixed phrase
To remain free from alcohol over a long period, especially after overcoming an addiction.
Grammar: Often used in recovery contexts: he has managed to stay sober for two years.
Patterns
- stay sober for years
With the support of her group, she has been able to stay sober for three years.
Many people say a daily routine helps them stay sober.
Word forms
| third person singular | stays sober |
|---|---|
| past tense | stayed sober |
| -ing form | staying sober |
Common combinations
- try to stay sober
- I'll try to stay sober until the speeches are over.
- manage to stay sober
- He managed to stay sober through the whole holiday season.
- stay sober for a year
- She has stayed sober for a year now.
- help someone stay sober
- Her brother's call helped her stay sober that night.
- stay sober behind the wheel
- The designated driver must stay sober behind the wheel.
Synonyms and how they differ
- abstain
- Abstain is more formal and means to choose to do without drink entirely, while stay sober can be for one evening.
- stay dry
- Stay dry is informal and suggests living without alcohol over time, not just avoiding drunkenness.
- keep a clear head
- Keep a clear head is broader and about staying alert, not only avoiding alcohol.
Opposites
Word family
Commonly confused: stay sober or sober up?
stay sober vs sober up
Sober up means to become sober after being drunk, while stay sober means to remain sober throughout.
Practice
Jake agreed to be the designated driver, so he had to ___ at the party.
Choose one answer.
Stay sober means avoiding alcohol the whole time. Sober up would only apply after already drinking.
Make it your own
Write a sentence using “stay sober”, then check it and compare it with the examples above.