Meaning & use

stay sober

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UK/ˌsteɪ ˈsəʊbə/
US/ˌsteɪ ˈsoʊbər/

Meanings

  1. phrasefixed phrase

    To avoid drinking alcohol, or to keep from becoming drunk, during a certain time.

    Grammar: Verb stay changes form (stays, stayed) while sober stays the same: she stayed sober all night.

    Patterns

    • stay sober for something
    • stay sober at something

    I'm driving tonight, so I'll stay sober.

    He promised to stay sober at his sister's wedding.

    It is hard to stay sober when everyone around you is celebrating.

  2. phrasefixed phrase

    To remain free from alcohol over a long period, especially after overcoming an addiction.

    Grammar: Often used in recovery contexts: he has managed to stay sober for two years.

    Patterns

    • stay sober for years

    With the support of her group, she has been able to stay sober for three years.

    Many people say a daily routine helps them stay sober.

Word forms

third person singularstays sober
past tensestayed sober
-ing formstaying sober

Common combinations

try to stay sober
I'll try to stay sober until the speeches are over.
manage to stay sober
He managed to stay sober through the whole holiday season.
stay sober for a year
She has stayed sober for a year now.
help someone stay sober
Her brother's call helped her stay sober that night.
stay sober behind the wheel
The designated driver must stay sober behind the wheel.

Synonyms and how they differ

abstain
Abstain is more formal and means to choose to do without drink entirely, while stay sober can be for one evening.
stay dry
Stay dry is informal and suggests living without alcohol over time, not just avoiding drunkenness.
keep a clear head
Keep a clear head is broader and about staying alert, not only avoiding alcohol.

Opposites

get drunkhit the bottle

Word family

sober adjective
not drunk
sobriety noun
the state of being sober
sober up phrasal verb
to become sober after drinking
soberly adverb
in a serious, calm way

Commonly confused: stay sober or sober up?

stay sober vs sober up

Sober up means to become sober after being drunk, while stay sober means to remain sober throughout.

Practice

Jake agreed to be the designated driver, so he had to ___ at the party.

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