Meaning & use
to hurt someone
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Meanings
phrasefixed phrase
To make another person feel emotional pain, sadness, or upset.
Grammar: Used after 'to' or a modal verb; the verb 'hurt' never changes to 'hurted' in the past.
Patterns
- to hurt someone's feelings
- to hurt someone badly
- not mean to hurt someone
She did not want to hurt someone she cared about, so she chose her words carefully.
It is easy to hurt someone with a careless joke, even when you are only teasing.
He apologized for hurting someone who had always supported him.
phrasefixed phrase
To cause physical injury or pain to another person.
Grammar: Often used with adverbs like 'seriously' or 'badly'; the object is a person, not a thing.
Patterns
- to hurt someone badly
- to hurt someone in an accident
- to hurt someone on purpose
The driver did not mean to hurt someone when he turned too quickly.
A falling branch can hurt someone standing underneath it.
The dog was frightened and might hurt someone if you get too close.
Common combinations
- hurt someone's feelings
- I did not mean to hurt your feelings with that comment.
- hurt someone badly
- He fell during the match and hurt someone badly by landing on them.
- never hurt a fly
- She is so gentle she would never hurt a fly.
- get hurt
- Be careful on the ice, or you will get hurt.
- hurt someone's chances
- A bad interview can hurt someone's chances of getting the job.
Synonyms and how they differ
- wound
- Stronger and more literary; it usually suggests a deep emotional injury rather than ordinary sadness.
- upset
- Milder and more common in speech; it means to make someone worried or unhappy, not necessarily deeply hurt.
- offend
- Focuses on breaking a social or moral rule so that someone feels insulted.
- injure
- Used mainly for physical harm, especially in medical or official contexts.
Opposites
Word family
Commonly confused: to hurt someone or harm? to hurt someone or hurted?
to hurt someone vs harm
'Harm' is more formal and often used for damage to health, property, or rights, while 'hurt someone' is the everyday phrase for personal pain.
to hurt someone vs hurted
'Hurted' is not a real word; the past tense of 'hurt' is always 'hurt'.
Practice
Which sentence uses the phrase correctly?
Choose one answer.
'Hurt' is an irregular verb whose past form is also 'hurt', so option 2 is correct. Option 1 wrongly adds '-ed', and options 3 and 4 use the wrong grammar for a simple past statement.
Make it your own
Write a sentence using “to hurt someone”, then check it and compare it with the examples above.