Meaning & use
to lead someone on
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Meanings
verbtransitivedisapproving
to encourage someone to believe you are romantically interested when you are not
Grammar: Takes an object: lead someone on. The object comes between 'lead' and 'on'.
Patterns
- lead someone on
- lead a person on
He kept buying her gifts, but he was just leading her on.
Stop leading him on if you don't want to date him.
verbtransitivedisapproving
to make someone believe something that is not true, often to get an advantage
Grammar: Takes an object: lead someone on. Often used about business or deals.
Patterns
- lead someone on
- lead a group on
The salesman led us on with promises of a big discount.
Don't let them lead you on about the job.
Word forms
| third person singular | leads someone on |
|---|---|
| past tense | led someone on |
| past participle | led someone on |
| -ing form | leading someone on |
Common combinations
- lead someone on about something
- She led him on about her feelings.
- accuse someone of leading someone on
- He accused her of leading him on.
- feel led on
- I felt led on after our third date.
- keep leading someone on
- He kept leading her on for months.
Synonyms and how they differ
- string along
- Very similar, but often suggests keeping someone waiting for a long time; 'lead on' is more about false romantic hope.
- mislead
- More general: it means giving wrong information, not necessarily about romance.
- deceive
- Stronger and more formal; it means making someone believe something completely false.
Opposites
Word family
- lead on phrasal verb
- The base form; same meaning.
Commonly confused: to lead someone on or lead on to?
to lead someone on vs lead on to
Means 'to result in' or 'to cause something to happen later'. 'Lead someone on' is about deceiving a person.
Practice
Which sentence uses 'lead someone on' correctly?
Choose one answer.
'Lead someone on' means to give false romantic hope. Only option B fits this meaning. Option A uses 'lead' with a physical object, which is not the phrasal verb. Option C means 'postpone', and option D needs 'to' (leads to the city).
Make it your own
Write a sentence using “to lead someone on”, then check it and compare it with the examples above.