Meaning & use
treat yourself
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Meanings
phraseidiom
To buy or do something pleasant for yourself because you want to, not because you need to.
Grammar: Takes 'to' before the treat: treat yourself to something. The reflexive pronoun changes with the subject: I treated myself, she treated herself.
Patterns
- treat yourself to something
- treat myself to something
- treat yourself to doing something
You've worked hard all week, so treat yourself to a nice dinner.
I treated myself to a new pair of shoes after I got paid.
Treat yourself to a long bath and an early night.
phraseidiominformal
To allow yourself something you usually avoid, especially as a reward or comfort.
Grammar: Often used as advice or encouragement, sometimes with 'a little' or 'a bit of': treat yourself to a little rest.
Patterns
- treat yourself to something
- go on, treat yourself
Go on, treat yourself to a piece of cake — you've earned it.
She treats herself to a lie-in every Sunday morning.
After exams, we treated ourselves to a weekend away.
Common combinations
- treat yourself to something
- Treat yourself to something small and cheerful this weekend.
- go on, treat yourself
- Go on, treat yourself — the sale ends today.
- treat yourself for once
- For once, treat yourself instead of buying gifts for everyone else.
- deserve to treat yourself
- You deserve to treat yourself after such a busy month.
- treat yourself to a little something
- She treated herself to a little something from the bakery.
Synonyms and how they differ
- indulge yourself
- Very close in meaning, but it suggests going beyond what is sensible and is often slightly critical.
- splurge
- Focuses on spending a lot of money suddenly, whereas treat yourself can involve time or rest rather than money.
- spoil yourself
- Similar idea of being kind to yourself, but it is used less often and sounds a little old-fashioned.
Opposites
Word family
Commonly confused: treat yourself or treat yourself to?
treat yourself vs treat yourself to
Don't drop 'to': say 'treat yourself to a coffee', not 'treat yourself a coffee'. The verb 'treat' alone can take a direct object in other senses, which causes this mistake.
Practice
Which sentence uses 'treat yourself' correctly?
Choose one answer.
The fixed pattern is 'treat yourself to something', so 'to' must come before the treat. Option 1 omits 'to', option 2 uses 'for' instead, and option 3 puts 'to' in the wrong place.
Make it your own
Write a sentence using “treat yourself”, then check it and compare it with the examples above.