Meaning & use
twist someone's arm
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Meanings
phraseidiom
To persuade or pressure someone, often not very forcefully, into doing something they are reluctant to do.
Grammar: Possessive agrees with the person: twist her arm, twist my arm.
Patterns
- twist someone's arm to do something
- twist someone's arm into something
I did not want to come, but she twisted my arm.
He twisted her arm into joining the committee.
You don't have to twist my arm to get me to try dessert.
phraseidiom
To bend someone's arm painfully, as a physical way of forcing them.
Grammar: Literal use: the verb takes the arm as its object.
Patterns
- twist someone's arm behind their back
The bully twisted his arm behind his back.
She twisted the thief's arm until he dropped the bag.
Never twist someone's arm in a game.
Word forms
| third person singular | twists someone's arm |
|---|---|
| past tense | twisted someone's arm |
| -ing form | twisting someone's arm |
Common combinations
- twist my arm
- All right, twist my arm, I'll have one more slice.
- without twisting an arm
- We got them to agree without twisting an arm.
- had to twist her arm
- I had to twist her arm to get her to sing.
- twisted his arm into
- They twisted his arm into lending the car.
Synonyms and how they differ
- pressure
- Pressure is plainer and can be serious, while twist someone's arm is often playful.
- coax
- Coax means gently persuading, whereas twist someone's arm suggests more insistent pushing.
- arm-twist
- Arm-twist is a compact verb and noun form with the same sense, often in business or politics.
- lean on
- Lean on suggests heavier pressure and may carry a threat.
Opposites
Word family
Commonly confused: twist someone's arm or pull someone's leg?
twist someone's arm vs pull someone's leg
Pull someone's leg means to tease with a joke, not to pressure.
Practice
'It didn't take much to twist her arm' most likely means ___.
Choose one answer.
The idiom means persuading someone. The negative about much effort means she gave in quickly, not that she was hurt.
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