Meaning & use
unconsolable or inconsolable
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Meaning
adjectivenot comparable
So sad that nothing and no one can comfort you.
Grammar: Used after a linking verb or before a noun: she was inconsolable; an inconsolable child.
Patterns
- be inconsolable
- inconsolable with grief
- an inconsolable person
After the funeral she was inconsolable for weeks.
The team was inconsolable after losing the final in the last minute.
He tried to cheer up his inconsolable daughter, but nothing worked.
Common combinations
- utterly inconsolable
- He was utterly inconsolable when his dog died.
- inconsolable with grief
- The widow was inconsolable with grief for months.
- an inconsolable child
- The nurse held the inconsolable child until his mother arrived.
- left inconsolable
- The sudden news left the whole family inconsolable.
Synonyms and how they differ
- heartbroken
- Focuses on the painful feeling itself rather than on the fact that comfort is impossible.
- devastated
- Stronger and more general; it can also describe shock or ruin, not only grief that cannot be eased.
- distraught
- Suggests being wildly upset and unable to think clearly, while 'inconsolable' stresses that no comfort helps.
Opposites
Word family
- console verb
- to try to make someone feel less sad
- consolation noun
- something that makes a loss or disappointment easier to bear
- consolable adjective
- able to be comforted (rare, mostly used in contrast with 'inconsolable')
Commonly confused: unconsolable or inconsolable or unconsolable? unconsolable or inconsolable or uncomfortable?
unconsolable or inconsolable vs unconsolable
A variant spelling of the same idea, but 'inconsolable' is the accepted standard form and the safer choice in writing.
unconsolable or inconsolable vs uncomfortable
Sounds similar but means physically or socially uneasy, not deeply sad.
Practice
Which sentence uses the standard form correctly?
Choose one answer.
'Inconsolable' is the standard word and fits after 'was'. Option 2 uses the nonstandard variant, option 3 needs 'by' or 'at' rather than 'with' here, and option 4 wrongly combines 'very' with a comparative 'than'.
Make it your own
Write a sentence using “unconsolable or inconsolable”, then check it and compare it with the examples above.