Meaning & use

unconsolable or inconsolable

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UK/ˌʌn.kənˈsəʊ.lə.bl̩ ɔː ˌɪn.kənˈsəʊ.lə.bl̩/
US/ˌʌn.kənˈsoʊ.lə.bl̩ ɔːr ˌɪn.kənˈsoʊ.lə.bl̩/

Meaning

  1. adjectivenot comparable

    So sad that nothing and no one can comfort you.

    Grammar: Used after a linking verb or before a noun: she was inconsolable; an inconsolable child.

    Patterns

    • be inconsolable
    • inconsolable with grief
    • an inconsolable person

    After the funeral she was inconsolable for weeks.

    The team was inconsolable after losing the final in the last minute.

    He tried to cheer up his inconsolable daughter, but nothing worked.

Common combinations

utterly inconsolable
He was utterly inconsolable when his dog died.
inconsolable with grief
The widow was inconsolable with grief for months.
an inconsolable child
The nurse held the inconsolable child until his mother arrived.
left inconsolable
The sudden news left the whole family inconsolable.

Synonyms and how they differ

heartbroken
Focuses on the painful feeling itself rather than on the fact that comfort is impossible.
devastated
Stronger and more general; it can also describe shock or ruin, not only grief that cannot be eased.
distraught
Suggests being wildly upset and unable to think clearly, while 'inconsolable' stresses that no comfort helps.

Opposites

Word family

console verb
to try to make someone feel less sad
consolation noun
something that makes a loss or disappointment easier to bear
consolable adjective
able to be comforted (rare, mostly used in contrast with 'inconsolable')

Commonly confused: unconsolable or inconsolable or unconsolable? unconsolable or inconsolable or uncomfortable?

unconsolable or inconsolable vs unconsolable

A variant spelling of the same idea, but 'inconsolable' is the accepted standard form and the safer choice in writing.

unconsolable or inconsolable vs uncomfortable

Sounds similar but means physically or socially uneasy, not deeply sad.

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