Meaning & use
unspoken
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Meanings
adjectivebefore a noun
Understood by everyone involved even though nobody has put it into words.
Grammar: Usually comes before a noun: an unspoken rule, an unspoken understanding.
Patterns
- an unspoken rule
- an unspoken understanding between people
There was an unspoken rule that nobody touched the last slice of pizza.
The two sisters had an unspoken agreement never to mention the argument again.
A heavy, unspoken tension hung over the dinner table.
adjectivecomparable
Felt or thought but deliberately not said aloud.
Grammar: Can follow a verb or come before a noun: her fears stayed unspoken; his unspoken fears.
Patterns
- remain unspoken
- leave something unspoken
Her gratitude remained unspoken, but he could see it in her face.
He left the worst of his fears unspoken so as not to worry his mother.
The question hung in the air, unspoken but obvious to everyone.
Common combinations
- unspoken rule
- The unspoken rule in the office is that nobody emails after eight at night.
- unspoken agreement
- They had an unspoken agreement to share the cooking.
- unspoken tension
- Unspoken tension filled the car after the argument.
- unspoken understanding
- Years of friendship had given them an unspoken understanding.
- remain unspoken
- Some feelings are best left to remain unspoken.
- unspoken thought
- Her unspoken thought was that he was lying.
Synonyms and how they differ
- tacit
- Tacit is more formal and is typical of agreements, consent or approval, whereas unspoken also suits feelings and moods.
- implicit
- Implicit stresses that something is contained in a situation or statement without being stated, while unspoken stresses that nobody said it.
- unsaid
- Unsaid usually refers to particular words that were held back, while unspoken is broader and can describe a whole shared understanding.
- silent
- Silent simply means making no sound, while unspoken suggests a message or meaning that goes unvoiced.
Opposites
Word family
Commonly confused: unspoken or unspoilt?
unspoken vs unspoilt
Unspoilt means not damaged or ruined, as in an unspoilt beach; it only looks similar to unspoken.
Practice
Nobody told the new employees, but there was an ______ rule that you never took the boss's parking space.
Choose one answer.
Unspoken describes a rule everyone understands without anyone stating it. Outspoken describes a person who speaks frankly, so it cannot describe a rule.
Make it your own
Write a sentence using “unspoken”, then check it and compare it with the examples above.