Meaning & use
wistful
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Meanings
adjectivecomparable
Feeling or showing a quiet, slightly sad longing for something, often something in the past.
Grammar: Describes a person's expression, mood, or look; can be modified by more/most.
Patterns
- a wistful smile
- wistful about something
- feel wistful
She gave a wistful smile as she looked at old photos.
He felt wistful about the summers he spent at his grandmother's house.
The song made me feel wistful for my childhood.
adjectivecomparable
Showing a gentle, melancholy thoughtfulness, especially about something you cannot have.
Grammar: Often used of looks, eyes, or tones of voice that suggest longing.
Patterns
- wistful eyes
- a wistful tone
He had a wistful look in his eyes when he talked about his old band.
She spoke in a wistful tone about the friends she had lost touch with.
Word forms
| comparative | more wistful |
|---|---|
| superlative | most wistful |
Common combinations
- wistful smile
- She gave a wistful smile as she watched the children play.
- wistful look
- He had a wistful look when he saw the old house.
- feel wistful
- I feel wistful when I hear that song.
- wistful about
- She was wistful about the days when they were young.
Synonyms and how they differ
- nostalgic
- Nostalgic is specifically about longing for the past; wistful can be about any unfulfilled desire.
- melancholy
- Melancholy is a deeper, more persistent sadness; wistful is gentler and often mixed with pleasure.
- yearning
- Yearning suggests a stronger, more active desire; wistful is quieter and more resigned.
Opposites
Word family
- wistfully adverb
- In a wistful manner.
- wistfulness noun
- The quality of being wistful.
Commonly confused: wistful or wishful?
wistful vs wishful
Wishful means having a strong desire for something, often unrealistic (wishful thinking); wistful is a gentle sadness about something you miss or cannot have.
Practice
Which sentence uses 'wistful' correctly?
Choose one answer.
Wistful means a gentle, sad longing, often for the past, so looking at an empty childhood home fits. A promotion is a happy event, not wistful; a laughing child is not wistful; and a punishment cannot be wistful.
Make it your own
Write a sentence using “wistful”, then check it and compare it with the examples above.