Meaning & use
mutual understanding
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Meanings
phraseuncountable
A situation in which two or more people each truly grasp the other's feelings, views, or intentions.
Grammar: Usually uncountable and used with no article: there is mutual understanding between them.
Patterns
- mutual understanding between someone and someone
- mutual understanding of something
After a long talk, the two neighbors reached a mutual understanding about the shared fence.
Good teamwork depends on mutual understanding rather than constant orders.
There was a quiet mutual understanding between the sisters that neither would mention the argument.
phrasecountable
An informal agreement, often unwritten, that both sides accept without needing to spell it out.
Grammar: Often countable with an article: we have a mutual understanding that she drives on weekdays.
Patterns
- have a mutual understanding that something
- come to a mutual understanding
We have a mutual understanding that whoever cooks does not wash the dishes.
The two companies worked on a mutual understanding long before any contract was signed.
Their mutual understanding was that the loan would be repaid by spring.
Common combinations
- reach a mutual understanding
- The two teams reached a mutual understanding after the meeting.
- build mutual understanding
- Exchange programs help build mutual understanding between students from different countries.
- a basis of mutual understanding
- Their friendship rests on a basis of mutual understanding.
- foster mutual understanding
- Open conversation can foster mutual understanding at work.
- promote mutual understanding
- The festival aims to promote mutual understanding between neighbors.
Synonyms and how they differ
- rapport
- Rapport stresses a warm, easy connection between people, while mutual understanding stresses that each side really grasps the other's position.
- accord
- Accord is more formal and suggests settled agreement, whereas mutual understanding can be a quiet, unspoken awareness.
- common ground
- Common ground names the points two sides already share, not the act of grasping each other's perspective.
- empathy
- Empathy can run in one direction, while mutual understanding requires both sides to see each other.
Opposites
Word family
- understand verb
- to grasp the meaning or feelings of someone or something
- understanding noun
- comprehension, or an informal agreement
- mutual adjective
- felt or done by each toward the other
- mutually adverb
- in a way that applies to both sides
Commonly confused: mutual understanding or mutual agreement?
mutual understanding vs mutual agreement
Mutual agreement means both sides consented to a decision, while mutual understanding means both truly grasp each other's views, even without any formal deal.
Practice
After weeks of tension, the two managers finally reached a ______ about who would lead the project.
Choose one answer.
Reached a mutual understanding is the natural collocation for settling things between two parties. Misunderstanding is the opposite of the intended result.
Make it your own
Write a sentence using “mutual understanding”, then check it and compare it with the examples above.