Meaning & use
mutual
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Meanings
nouncountableslanginformal
On social media, someone you follow who also follows you back.
Grammar: Often plural: mutuals.
Patterns
- a mutual of someone
- mutuals with someone
I only share these photos with my mutuals.
She is a mutual of mine from an old gaming forum.
Be careful with your posts if you have strangers as mutuals.
adjectivebefore a noun
Felt, done or shared equally by two or more people or groups.
Grammar: Often before a noun: mutual respect.
Patterns
- mutual respect
- a mutual agreement
The two companies ended the deal by mutual agreement.
They share a mutual love of jazz.
The feeling is mutual.
adjectivebefore a noun
Shared by two or more people, even though they did not plan it, as in a mutual friend.
Grammar: Used with friend or acquaintance, though some writers prefer common.
Patterns
- a mutual friend
We met through a mutual friend at a wedding.
They have several mutual acquaintances.
Word forms
| plural | mutuals |
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Common combinations
- mutual respect
- The partnership is built on mutual respect.
- mutual friend
- A mutual friend introduced us.
- mutual benefit
- The agreement is for mutual benefit.
- by mutual consent
- They parted by mutual consent.
- the feeling is mutual
- I can't stand him, and the feeling is mutual.
Synonyms and how they differ
- reciprocal
- Reciprocal is more formal and stresses a back-and-forth exchange.
- shared
- Shared simply means held by more than one, without the idea of equal feeling.
- joint
- Joint means done together as a combined effort, not just felt equally.
- common
- Common means shared by many and suits a mutual friend more naturally for some speakers.
Opposites
Word family
Commonly confused: mutual or mutual vs common?
mutual vs mutual vs common
Mutual strictly means reciprocal. Common means shared by several people, so some writers prefer common friend.
Practice
I can't stand traffic, and the feeling is ___.
Choose one answer.
The feeling is mutual is the set phrase meaning both feel the same. The other options are similar-looking words that do not fit.
Make it your own
Write a sentence using “mutual”, then check it and compare it with the examples above.