Meaning & use
my deepest sympathy
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Meaning
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A respectful phrase used to tell someone you feel great sadness for them after a death or misfortune.
Grammar: Used as an offer of condolence: please accept my deepest sympathy.
Patterns
- my deepest sympathy to someone
- my deepest sympathy on something
Please accept my deepest sympathy on the loss of your mother.
You have my deepest sympathy at this difficult time.
I wrote to offer my deepest sympathy to the family.
Common combinations
- offer my deepest sympathy
- I wish to offer my deepest sympathy.
- accept my deepest sympathy
- Please accept my deepest sympathy.
- my deepest sympathy to your family
- My deepest sympathy to your family.
- send my deepest sympathy
- I send my deepest sympathy.
Synonyms and how they differ
- my condolences
- My condolences is shorter and more formal, and used mainly after a death.
- I'm so sorry for your loss
- I'm so sorry for your loss is warmer and more spoken than written.
- my heartfelt sympathy
- My heartfelt sympathy puts more emphasis on sincerity.
- my thoughts are with you
- My thoughts are with you is a gentler, less formal way to show support.
Opposites
Word family
- sympathy noun
- feeling sorry for someone
- sympathize verb
- to show or feel sympathy
- sympathetic adjective
- showing kindness
- sympathetically adverb
- in a caring way
Commonly confused: my deepest sympathy or empathy?
my deepest sympathy vs empathy
Empathy is sharing someone's feelings, whereas sympathy is feeling sorry for them from outside.
Practice
A card sent after a death might read, 'Please accept my deepest ___.'
Choose one answer.
Sympathy is the correct word for condolences. The others suit celebrations, delays or thanks.
Make it your own
Write a sentence using “my deepest sympathy”, then check it and compare it with the examples above.