Meaning & use

my deepest sympathy

phrase·Everydayformal

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UK/maɪ ˌdiːpɪst ˈsɪmpəθi/
US/maɪ ˌdiːpɪst ˈsɪmpəθi/

Meaning

  1. phrasefixed phrase

    A respectful phrase used to tell someone you feel great sadness for them after a death or misfortune.

    Grammar: Used as an offer of condolence: please accept my deepest sympathy.

    Patterns

    • my deepest sympathy to someone
    • my deepest sympathy on something

    Please accept my deepest sympathy on the loss of your mother.

    You have my deepest sympathy at this difficult time.

    I wrote to offer my deepest sympathy to the family.

Common combinations

offer my deepest sympathy
I wish to offer my deepest sympathy.
accept my deepest sympathy
Please accept my deepest sympathy.
my deepest sympathy to your family
My deepest sympathy to your family.
send my deepest sympathy
I send my deepest sympathy.

Synonyms and how they differ

my condolences
My condolences is shorter and more formal, and used mainly after a death.
I'm so sorry for your loss
I'm so sorry for your loss is warmer and more spoken than written.
my heartfelt sympathy
My heartfelt sympathy puts more emphasis on sincerity.
my thoughts are with you
My thoughts are with you is a gentler, less formal way to show support.

Opposites

Word family

sympathy noun
feeling sorry for someone
sympathize verb
to show or feel sympathy
sympathetic adjective
showing kindness
sympathetically adverb
in a caring way

Commonly confused: my deepest sympathy or empathy?

my deepest sympathy vs empathy

Empathy is sharing someone's feelings, whereas sympathy is feeling sorry for them from outside.

Practice

A card sent after a death might read, 'Please accept my deepest ___.'

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