Meaning & use
not my circus saying
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Meanings
phraseidiominformalhumorous
A saying used to say that a messy problem or situation is not your responsibility.
Grammar: Used as a complete comment, often on its own, or after the verb be: it's not my circus.
Patterns
- not my circus, not my monkeys
- it's not my circus
When they started arguing about the schedule again, I just thought: not my circus, not my monkeys.
She smiled and said, 'Not my circus,' then went back to her own work.
The whole department was in chaos, but that was not my circus.
phraseidiominformalhumorous
Used to show you are deliberately staying out of other people's disputes or drama.
Grammar: Often said with a shrug or a light tone; it can seem uncaring if used about a serious problem.
Patterns
- not my circus, not my monkeys
- decide something is not my circus
I decided the family quarrel was not my circus and stayed quiet.
He repeated 'not my monkeys' whenever his colleagues complained about the manager.
Common combinations
- not my circus, not my monkeys
- Not my circus, not my monkeys, she thought as the meeting turned into a shouting match.
- it's not my circus
- It's not my circus, so I'm not getting involved.
- say 'not my circus'
- He said 'not my circus' and left the room.
- not my monkeys
- The project is failing, but those are not my monkeys.
Synonyms and how they differ
- not my problem
- Blunter and less playful; it can sound rude, while the circus saying softens the message with humor.
- not my department
- Used in workplaces to say a task belongs to another team; it is about duties, not drama.
- none of my business
- Means the matter is private and not yours to interfere in, rather than not your responsibility.
Commonly confused: not my circus saying or monkey business?
not my circus saying vs monkey business
'Monkey business' means dishonest or silly behavior, not a statement that something is not your responsibility.
Practice
A colleague asks you to fix an argument between two other teams. Which reply uses the saying correctly?
Choose one answer.
The saying means the problem belongs to someone else, so option 0 fits. Option 2 reverses the meaning, and options 1 and 3 contradict the idea of staying out of it.
Make it your own
Write a sentence using “not my circus saying”, then check it and compare it with the examples above.