Meaning & use
not my forte
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Meaning
phraseidiominformalhumorous
A light way of saying that you are not good at something, or that it is not an area where you do well.
Grammar: The pronoun changes with the person: not his forte, not our forte; no verb is needed, though is is often added.
Patterns
- something is not my forte
- something is not someone's forte
Cooking has never been my strong point; honestly, it is just not my forte.
Public speaking is not my forte, so I will keep this short.
Spelling is not his forte, but he has great ideas.
Common combinations
- is not my forte
- Math is not my forte, so I double-check every sum.
- definitely not my forte
- Parallel parking is definitely not my forte.
- not exactly my forte
- Small talk is not exactly my forte.
- not really her forte
- Patience is not really her forte.
Synonyms and how they differ
- not my strong suit
- Not my strong suit means almost the same and is slightly more casual; both are used to soften an admission of weakness.
- not my cup of tea
- Not my cup of tea says you do not enjoy something, whereas not my forte says you are not good at it.
- not my thing
- Not my thing is blunter and more informal, and can mean either dislike or weakness.
- beyond me
- Beyond me suggests you cannot understand or do something at all, which is stronger than not my forte.
Opposites
Word family
- forte noun
- something a person does especially well
- fortissimo adverb
- in music, very loudly
- forte adverb
- in music, loudly
Commonly confused: not my forte or fort?
not my forte vs fort
A fort is a strong military building. Forte, in the sense of a strength, is a different word, though the first syllable is sometimes pronounced like it.
Practice
Someone says, 'Drawing is not my forte.' What do they mean?
Choose one answer.
Not my forte means it is not an area of strength, so the speaker is not good at drawing. The second option confuses lack of skill with dislike.
Make it your own
Write a sentence using “not my forte”, then check it and compare it with the examples above.