Meaning & use

not my forte

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UK/ˌnɒt maɪ ˈfɔːteɪ/
US/ˌnɑːt maɪ ˈfɔːrteɪ/

Meaning

  1. phraseidiominformalhumorous

    A light way of saying that you are not good at something, or that it is not an area where you do well.

    Grammar: The pronoun changes with the person: not his forte, not our forte; no verb is needed, though is is often added.

    Patterns

    • something is not my forte
    • something is not someone's forte

    Cooking has never been my strong point; honestly, it is just not my forte.

    Public speaking is not my forte, so I will keep this short.

    Spelling is not his forte, but he has great ideas.

Common combinations

is not my forte
Math is not my forte, so I double-check every sum.
definitely not my forte
Parallel parking is definitely not my forte.
not exactly my forte
Small talk is not exactly my forte.
not really her forte
Patience is not really her forte.

Synonyms and how they differ

not my strong suit
Not my strong suit means almost the same and is slightly more casual; both are used to soften an admission of weakness.
not my cup of tea
Not my cup of tea says you do not enjoy something, whereas not my forte says you are not good at it.
not my thing
Not my thing is blunter and more informal, and can mean either dislike or weakness.
beyond me
Beyond me suggests you cannot understand or do something at all, which is stronger than not my forte.

Opposites

my fortemy strong point

Word family

forte noun
something a person does especially well
fortissimo adverb
in music, very loudly
forte adverb
in music, loudly

Commonly confused: not my forte or fort?

not my forte vs fort

A fort is a strong military building. Forte, in the sense of a strength, is a different word, though the first syllable is sometimes pronounced like it.

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Someone says, 'Drawing is not my forte.' What do they mean?

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