Meaning & use
obsessed
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Meanings
adjectivenot comparable
Unable to stop thinking about someone or something; extremely preoccupied with it.
Grammar: Usually follows be, seem, or become and is followed by with: obsessed with fitness.
Patterns
- be obsessed with someone
- be obsessed with something
- become obsessed by something
She became obsessed with the idea that she had left the door unlocked.
He was obsessed with his work and rarely slept.
adjectivenot comparableinformal
Very enthusiastic about an interest, hobby, or activity, sometimes too intensely.
Grammar: Informal and often positive or teasing; still usually followed by with: obsessed with vinyl records.
Patterns
- be obsessed with a hobby
- get obsessed by a detail
- totally obsessed with something
My brother is obsessed with old maps and buys them every chance he gets.
At the party, she was totally obsessed with the idea of baking the perfect bread.
Common combinations
- obsessed with detail
- The copy editor is obsessed with detail, which makes the reports reliable.
- dangerously obsessed
- A fan became dangerously obsessed with the singer's private life.
- obsessed with control
- The manager is obsessed with control and reviews every small decision.
Synonyms and how they differ
- fixated
- Suggests a narrow, often unhealthy focus on one thing; obsessed is broader.
- preoccupied
- Means mentally absorbed or distracted; weaker than obsessed and often neutral.
- consumed
- Very strong, implying the feeling takes over a person's life.
Opposites
Word family
Commonly confused: obsessed or obsessive? obsessed or absorbed?
obsessed vs obsessive
Obsessive is often a negative personality trait; obsessed describes how a person feels or is focused.
obsessed vs absorbed
Absorbed is usually neutral and pleasant; obsessed suggests pressure or excess.
Practice
Choose the best sentence.
Choose one answer.
Obsessed is normally followed by with or by: obsessed with classical music. “In” and “at” are not used with this adjective.
Make it your own
Write a sentence using “obsessed”, then check it and compare it with the examples above.