Meaning & use

obsessed

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UK/əbˈsest/
US/əbˈsest/

Meanings

  1. adjectivenot comparable

    Unable to stop thinking about someone or something; extremely preoccupied with it.

    Grammar: Usually follows be, seem, or become and is followed by with: obsessed with fitness.

    Patterns

    • be obsessed with someone
    • be obsessed with something
    • become obsessed by something

    She became obsessed with the idea that she had left the door unlocked.

    He was obsessed with his work and rarely slept.

  2. adjectivenot comparableinformal

    Very enthusiastic about an interest, hobby, or activity, sometimes too intensely.

    Grammar: Informal and often positive or teasing; still usually followed by with: obsessed with vinyl records.

    Patterns

    • be obsessed with a hobby
    • get obsessed by a detail
    • totally obsessed with something

    My brother is obsessed with old maps and buys them every chance he gets.

    At the party, she was totally obsessed with the idea of baking the perfect bread.

Common combinations

obsessed with detail
The copy editor is obsessed with detail, which makes the reports reliable.
dangerously obsessed
A fan became dangerously obsessed with the singer's private life.
obsessed with control
The manager is obsessed with control and reviews every small decision.

Synonyms and how they differ

fixated
Suggests a narrow, often unhealthy focus on one thing; obsessed is broader.
preoccupied
Means mentally absorbed or distracted; weaker than obsessed and often neutral.
consumed
Very strong, implying the feeling takes over a person's life.

Opposites

Word family

obsession noun
A persistent, hard-to-control thought, interest, or activity.
obsessive adjective
Relating to obsession or done with excessive attention.
obsess verb
To fill the mind continually or to preoccupy someone greatly.

Commonly confused: obsessed or obsessive? obsessed or absorbed?

obsessed vs obsessive

Obsessive is often a negative personality trait; obsessed describes how a person feels or is focused.

obsessed vs absorbed

Absorbed is usually neutral and pleasant; obsessed suggests pressure or excess.

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