Meaning & use
sorry for your loss
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Meanings
phrasefixed phrase
Said to someone to show sympathy after a family member or friend has died.
Grammar: Often shortened from 'I am sorry for your loss' and used on its own.
Patterns
- I'm sorry for your loss
- so sorry for your loss
At the funeral he quietly said, "I'm sorry for your loss."
We are so sorry for your loss; your mother was a lovely woman.
She wrote on the card, "Sorry for your loss, thinking of you all."
phrasefixed phraseinformal
Used more lightly to show sympathy when someone has lost something important, such as a pet or a match.
Grammar: Sometimes used with gentle humor about small losses.
Patterns
- sorry for your loss
Sorry for your loss, I know that cat meant a lot to you.
Sorry for your loss, but your team played well.
Common combinations
- say sorry for your loss
- He did not know how to say sorry for your loss.
- so sorry for your loss
- We are so sorry for your loss.
- deeply sorry for your loss
- The mayor said he was deeply sorry for your loss.
- sorry for your loss card
- She sent a sorry for your loss card to her neighbor.
Synonyms and how they differ
- my condolences
- My condolences is more formal and used in writing, while sorry for your loss feels spoken and warm.
- I'm sorry to hear that
- I'm sorry to hear that reacts to any bad news, not only a death.
- deepest sympathy
- Deepest sympathy is a formal card message, whereas sorry for your loss is something you can say aloud.
Opposites
Word family
Commonly confused: sorry for your loss or sorry for your lost?
sorry for your loss vs sorry for your lost
The correct noun is loss, with two s's; lost is the verb or adjective.
Practice
A coworker tells you her grandfather has died. What is the most fitting thing to say?
Choose one answer.
Sorry for your loss is the standard expression of sympathy after a death. Better luck next time suits a failed attempt, not a bereavement.
Make it your own
Write a sentence using “sorry for your loss”, then check it and compare it with the examples above.