Meaning & use

sorry for your loss

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UK/ˈsɒri fə jɔː lɒs/
US/ˈsɑri fɚ jɔr lɔs/

Meanings

  1. phrasefixed phrase

    Said to someone to show sympathy after a family member or friend has died.

    Grammar: Often shortened from 'I am sorry for your loss' and used on its own.

    Patterns

    • I'm sorry for your loss
    • so sorry for your loss

    At the funeral he quietly said, "I'm sorry for your loss."

    We are so sorry for your loss; your mother was a lovely woman.

    She wrote on the card, "Sorry for your loss, thinking of you all."

  2. phrasefixed phraseinformal

    Used more lightly to show sympathy when someone has lost something important, such as a pet or a match.

    Grammar: Sometimes used with gentle humor about small losses.

    Patterns

    • sorry for your loss

    Sorry for your loss, I know that cat meant a lot to you.

    Sorry for your loss, but your team played well.

Common combinations

say sorry for your loss
He did not know how to say sorry for your loss.
so sorry for your loss
We are so sorry for your loss.
deeply sorry for your loss
The mayor said he was deeply sorry for your loss.
sorry for your loss card
She sent a sorry for your loss card to her neighbor.

Synonyms and how they differ

my condolences
My condolences is more formal and used in writing, while sorry for your loss feels spoken and warm.
I'm sorry to hear that
I'm sorry to hear that reacts to any bad news, not only a death.
deepest sympathy
Deepest sympathy is a formal card message, whereas sorry for your loss is something you can say aloud.

Opposites

Word family

loss noun
the fact of no longer having someone or something
sorry adjective
feeling sadness for someone
lose verb
to no longer have something
bereaved adjective
having lost a close person through death

Commonly confused: sorry for your loss or sorry for your lost?

sorry for your loss vs sorry for your lost

The correct noun is loss, with two s's; lost is the verb or adjective.

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