Meaning & use
sorry to bother you
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Meaning
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A polite expression used to apologize for interrupting someone or asking for their time or help.
Grammar: Usually opens a request: sorry to bother you, but could you help me?
Patterns
- sorry to bother you, but ...
Sorry to bother you, but do you know where the library is?
Sorry to bother you, could I borrow your pen for a second?
Sorry to bother you so late, but I think I left my keys here.
Common combinations
- sorry to bother you, but
- Sorry to bother you, but is this seat free?
- sorry to bother you again
- Sorry to bother you again, but I have one more question.
- sorry to bother you so late
- Sorry to bother you so late, but the lights are still on.
- sorry to bother you at home
- Sorry to bother you at home, but it is urgent.
Synonyms and how they differ
- excuse me
- Excuse me is shorter and works for getting attention, while sorry to bother you explicitly apologizes for the imposition.
- sorry to trouble you
- Sorry to trouble you is a bit more formal and old-fashioned in tone.
- pardon the interruption
- Pardon the interruption is formal and fits meetings or speeches.
- I hate to ask, but
- I hate to ask, but focuses on how awkward the request feels, rather than on interrupting.
Word family
- bother verb
- to disturb or annoy someone
- bother noun
- a minor trouble or effort
- bothersome adjective
- causing slight annoyance
- sorry adjective
- feeling regret
Commonly confused: sorry to bother you or sorry for bothering you?
sorry to bother you vs sorry for bothering you
Sorry for bothering you apologizes after the interruption has happened, while sorry to bother you is said as you begin to interrupt.
Practice
Which phrase best opens a polite request to a stranger on the street?
Choose one answer.
Only the first option is a natural, grammatical polite opening. The others have wrong grammar or a missing connecting word.
Make it your own
Write a sentence using “sorry to bother you”, then check it and compare it with the examples above.