Meaning & use

sorry to bother you

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UK/ˈsɒri tə ˈbɒðə juː/
US/ˈsɑːri tə ˈbɑːðər juː/

Meaning

  1. phrasefixed phrase

    A polite expression used to apologize for interrupting someone or asking for their time or help.

    Grammar: Usually opens a request: sorry to bother you, but could you help me?

    Patterns

    • sorry to bother you, but ...

    Sorry to bother you, but do you know where the library is?

    Sorry to bother you, could I borrow your pen for a second?

    Sorry to bother you so late, but I think I left my keys here.

Common combinations

sorry to bother you, but
Sorry to bother you, but is this seat free?
sorry to bother you again
Sorry to bother you again, but I have one more question.
sorry to bother you so late
Sorry to bother you so late, but the lights are still on.
sorry to bother you at home
Sorry to bother you at home, but it is urgent.

Synonyms and how they differ

excuse me
Excuse me is shorter and works for getting attention, while sorry to bother you explicitly apologizes for the imposition.
sorry to trouble you
Sorry to trouble you is a bit more formal and old-fashioned in tone.
pardon the interruption
Pardon the interruption is formal and fits meetings or speeches.
I hate to ask, but
I hate to ask, but focuses on how awkward the request feels, rather than on interrupting.

Word family

bother verb
to disturb or annoy someone
bother noun
a minor trouble or effort
bothersome adjective
causing slight annoyance
sorry adjective
feeling regret

Commonly confused: sorry to bother you or sorry for bothering you?

sorry to bother you vs sorry for bothering you

Sorry for bothering you apologizes after the interruption has happened, while sorry to bother you is said as you begin to interrupt.

Practice

Which phrase best opens a polite request to a stranger on the street?

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