Meaning & use

sorry to bother

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UK/ˈsɒri tə ˈbɒðə/
US/ˈsɑːri tə ˈbɑːðər/

Meanings

  1. phrasefixed phrase

    a polite way to begin asking someone for help or to interrupt them

    Grammar: Used at the start of a request, often followed by 'but' or a question: Sorry to bother you, but could you help?

    Patterns

    • sorry to bother you
    • sorry to bother you, but ...

    Sorry to bother you, but do you know where the station is?

    Sorry to bother you — I just need to ask a quick question.

    Sorry to bother you at this hour, but I left my keys inside.

  2. phrasefixed phrase

    used to apologize for interrupting someone who is busy or for taking their time

    Grammar: Often used alone or with 'but' when you feel you are disturbing someone: Sorry to bother you, but I need your signature.

    Patterns

    • sorry to bother you
    • sorry to bother you with something

    Sorry to bother you while you're working, but I have a quick question.

    Sorry to bother you — I didn't realize you were in a meeting.

    Sorry to bother you with this, but could you check my report?

Common combinations

sorry to bother you
Sorry to bother you, but could you pass the salt?
sorry to bother you at this hour
Sorry to bother you at this hour, but I need to talk.
sorry to bother you with this
Sorry to bother you with this, but I can't find my file.
sorry to bother you again
Sorry to bother you again, but I forgot to ask something.

Synonyms and how they differ

excuse me
Used to get attention or interrupt politely, but not specifically an apology for disturbing someone.
I apologize for the interruption
More formal and serious; used in written or official situations.
pardon me
Slightly old-fashioned or formal; used when interrupting or disagreeing.

Commonly confused: sorry to bother or sorry for bothering you?

sorry to bother vs sorry for bothering you

This is used after you have already bothered someone, to apologize for a past action. 'Sorry to bother you' is used before or while you are bothering them.

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